Beyond the Box | Merrily Wed Wedding Design Lake Tahoe

Our clients often come to us desiring to put their unique twist to their reception so it fully resembles their personalities.  Why not start with the ceremony?  Let’s move beyond the ‘box’ seating layout and explore a few circular and creative set-ups for the wedding ceremony.  How fitting to literally tie the knot in the middle of your family and closest friends!

Circular seating, or 360, is a modern way to incorporate a more intimate feel for your guests (almost no seat is a bad seat) and it truly represents the ring of love.  The wedding band is a circle which represents the continuity of never-ending love.  Outdoor weddings are an ideal setting for round ceremonies with plenty of space.  Even if space should be an issue, there are ways to modify a circular design and make it work.

These below set-ups are fun and different ways to showcase your ceremony and what a wonderful way to provide a 360 view for your guests!

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This swirl set-up creates a magnificent aisle with front row seats for all.

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If limited on space, creating a half-moon or semi-circle will also work.

 

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Father of the Bride | Merrily Wed Tahoe Weddings

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Mention Father of the Bride and images of Steve Martin come to mind, but not everyone can deal with stress and pressure by making us laugh… 

The Father of the Bride is a role that can be left out during the wedding planning process (except to keep up with all the payments).  He is expected to be experienced enough to cope with his nerves and expected to be strong enough to cope with his emotions.  Giving your daughter away can be a very difficult and bittersweet moment.  We thought we would help.

Take a moment and if you know someone in this role, pass on our advice!

1. Getting Over The Nerves
Nerves about the ceremony, speeches and toasts can be overwhelming.  Don’t worry all of these nervous can be settled with a little preparation.  Make sure and make it to the rehearsal that way the only thing to worry about during the ceremony is giving away “Daddy’s little girl”.  Also make sure to write and practice your speech well before your daughter’s big day.  A little preparation can go a long way when it comes to easing nerves.

2. Prepare for Your Speeches
Preparing your speeches in full before hand is the best thing you can do to ease your nerves, don’t wing it!  For more tips on how to write a great speech take a look at MW’s “Cheers Worthy Toast” post.  The Father of the Bride sets the tempo, welcomes his guests, new members of the family and speaks about his daughter while trying to not embarrass her!  Remember…Practice makes perfect!

3. Plan Your Advice
One of the most important tasks of the Father of the Bride is to pass on advice to the couple.  This advice can be in a toast, in passing, or in a letter.  Make sure to prepare what advice you would like to give the couple, many couples will remember what advice you gave them for years to come.  Remember what you’ve learned throughout your years and share it with them!

4. Be Ready for the Emotions
Men sometimes try and hide their emotions from the rest of the world.  Make sure and take some time with your daughter before the wedding to talk about what she means to you.  Many Father of the Brides believe that they will come up with the perfect thing to say when the time comes but never do.  By doing this you can remorse for never getting the chance to tell your daughter how you feel or be overwhelmed by emotions during the ceremony.

Dress Shopping Simplified | Merrily Wed Destination Weddings

We thought this new bridesmaid dress website, Weddington Way, would be a perfect follow-up to our post on floral frocks.  More often than not, when planning a destination wedding, your closest gals and BFF’s are not down the street or even in the same area code.  This can make selecting bridesmaids dresses more of a logistical nightmare rather than one of the fun details of the wedding.  

Weddington Way is a new web site that is dedicated to bringing together brides and their bridesmaids – no matter the distance.  At Weddington Way, you and your bridesmaids can connect, shop and share the perfect dresses without complicated travel and multiple dress appointments.

This shopping site is the brainchild of a former buyer of Bloomingdales who noticed a need for better online resources for brides-to-be and their bridal parties.  This will simplify the way brides shop for the bridesmaid dress.  Anyone, a bride (or a bridesmaid) can register on the site for free and then invite the rest of the party to join her.  Your personal bridal party page allows you to custom write messages to your bridal party through out the selection process.

Shop:  There’s a hand-selected collection of dresses from top designers.  You can filter your search by style, theme, color, price and more.

Compare:  You can mark certain dresses as your favorites and share them with your bridal party.  A drag and drop feature allows you to see your potential dress lineup.

Share:  You can select styles and share opinions on the shared social page between your entire bridal party. 

Track:  As a bride, you can see how your bridesmaids rank different dresses and track their ordering activity.  This way, it’s easy to stay on top of the process with very little direct communication. 

Weddington Way also allows you to virtually see a chosen bridesmaid dress in different styles.  If a bride was leaning towards one color but not sure the perfect cut for everyone, then this will allow each bridesmaid to select the style that flatters her the best.  Or the bridesmaids can select the dresses that they like and would compliment their curves the best, and the bride can choose which style(s) she prefers.  Genius!

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